Saturday, 21 November 2015

My Husband Abandoned Me & My Children

Hello People, i got this from Hannah who lives in Lagos.

See below her text

"Hello Tosin,

Am happy to know your blog will be live on Saturday night, i first want to thank you for prayers and continued support. As you requested, i will explain in details and make it short.




I got married to my husband in 2013 at the registry, 5months after i gave birth to our 1st child, after some months he started acting funny, which i called him to please show love to our daughter and tell me whatever i have done wrong, he answered all is well. That same night we had sexual intercourse and i was pregnant with my second child.

Its 4month after before i realised, i showed the result to him which was like a death sentence, Tosin, since that time i have been in hell. Before the birth of my baby, he has sold the furnitures and some fittings in the house, if i challenge his action i do get beating of my life and worse you can imagine. Meanwhile, he hasn't been giving money for house keep till i gave birth and my baby was 1 in October, through family and friends I have been coping with my children, till date none of my children has enrolled in school.

Recently, I heard he his planning to travel abroad which requires him to do fake marriage to be able to get residence permit and his mother to collect the children from me.

Tosin please help me, what do i do? "

2 comments:

  1. Madam, I think you should just find a way to go back to your family's house, its obvious the guy don't love you.

    And for your mother-in-law, she is not a good mother, she suppose to find a solution to whatever problem you and your husband going through.

    I share your pains, sorry dear

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  2. This is life issues, truly.
    But my candid Nigerian advice is this; pray for God to settle you. You are married forever.

    On the other hand, my American advice is this; 'teach that m'er'f'ker a life lesson, and seek help from single mother's forum/association. Get to learn a trade, and take care of your body & kids.

    But all in all, I will always pray for you Hannah. God bless you and your family.

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