Hi Tosin,
I dated my ex for over a year. He always traveled for work. 6 months into dating, he had done his engagement in absentia. Months later, a mutual friend asked me if i knew he was getting married. My mouth felt dry, my hands felt clammy, and I could feel I was becoming light headed. No was the obvious answer.
He was to get married 6 months after his engagement. I sent him a text and asked him if it was true... To be honest, his excuse was pretty pathetic that it really isn't worth mentioning. I remembered telling him, "The mills of God grind slowly but exceedingly fine". I most importantly mentioned that i'd have forgiven him because i did not want to be bound to him in the afterlife. I would never think ill of anyone no matter how hurt I feel about their actions but man must reap what they have sown. That in itself is a Divine law of the Almighty.
He never called to personally explain but instead, he felt it imperative to accuse the mutual friend of being a gossip. He sought to hide behind text messaging. Never mustering sufficient courage to be a man.
It's been almost 2 years, and he wants to continue with where we left off.
I'm sorry, i'm still in love you, I regret what I did, I think about you every time, I want you to be my friend, I think about you every time. All these were the things he dredged up from the inner recesses of his mind. I'm not even including all the numerous texts and phone calls and unsolicited visits he made to my house.. safe to say that I was never home. Even most hurting was the fact that his wedding photos were all over the net. No thanks to social media huh!
I said "He don chop my food finish". Yes, i was a good cook. I made quintessentially 'made in igboland' delicacies, and he loved it. He was more like a saboteur. Sabotaging and scuppering my chances of meeting someone who would want me.
So Please, Kneel down and thank the Almighty that the chaff has been removed from your life. I'd rather be single and happy than married and miserable. Fact.
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