You know when the guy or girl you're seeing either just
isn't that into you, doesn't want anything serious, or can't get their
life together enough to make you a priority? But they're so much fun! You
should stick around and give it a chance! Nope.
Here
are 15 signs you need to get up on out of that relationship, because, and
you've heard it before, it's better to be single than in something that's
going N O W H E R E.
1. They say, "I'm not ready for a
relationship," but you hear, "I'm not ready for a relationship
right now, but if you keep trying I might be soon." Chances are they're not
going to be ready anytime soon, if ever, and you might just be wasting your
precious time aka 20s (or 30s).
2. They're leading you on. The cycle goes a
little something like this: They say sweet things that keep you
hopeful, but then when you need them the most or ask them to attend family
events; they're MIA or decline the invite. If this happens once,
maybe they have plans. If it happens more than once, you need to hit the
eject button. Can't tell if you're being
led on? Ask your best friends. They've probably been talking
about how [insert lover's name here] has been leading you on for months now.
3. They say,
"Jump!" You say, "How high?" If they're a
dictator in the relationship, chances are they're a bit of a dick too.
Relationships aren't meant to be one-sided; you're supposed to talk things
out or decide them together, not let your other half tell where to go and when.
You're a #BOSS too, so act like it.
4. You've compromised your
standards so they fit the description of what you're looking for. If religion is
important to you in a relationship, don't throw that out the window just
because the one you're with currently is a dreamboat who hates church. There is
someone out there who is a dreamboat and loves church — or whatever is
important to you — just as much as you.
5. You're always packing a bag to
sleep at their house. Who cares if you have roommates and they don't, or their
place is bigger than yours. It's really annoying to always have to be the one
schlepping your stuff over to someone else's apartment every single time.
So if they don't make an effort to sleep at your place at least sometimes,
consider them inconsiderate.
6. You've broken up multiple times all
for the same reason. They're not ready to commit. In times like these, I
refer back to the book It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken.
7. They only hit you up when you
post a sexy IG or Snapchat. No.
8. They're always making excuses for
why they didn't text you back or why they can't meet up. And they don't
always make sense. If you feel like you're going crazy, they're
probably being shady. Also that's called gas lighting and it's a form
of emotional abuse.
9. They make comments
about other women's appearances when you're with them. Like, "She's
hot," or, "Now that girl's really my type." Obviously there are
gorgeous people in the world — men and women — but they're just saying it to
your face to bring you down.
10. They cut you down. They spit comments
that belittle you because they're the one who's really insecure.
If you leave their place feeling worse about yourself than when you got
there, it's time to get out.
11. They never want to go out on
dates, and only invite you over for wine and a movie at their place. You're not dumb. Wine and a
movie is just another name for Netflix and chill, which is fine once in a
while, but if they're pulling it all the time don't waste your time.
12. They always take photos with
other girls when they go out and you're not there. You have no clue why,
but they feel the need to make it known that they can still pull
girls. It's not worth the stress.
13. They suddenly broke it off with
another girl to go out with you. This could mean one of two things: They
really like you and that's it, or that's the name of their game and
chances are they could turn around and do the same to you just as
fast.
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